It’s been a little over two years since we moved from Sydney, to the Yass Valley. Although we weren’t able to move straight onto our property (it took two years to get the house, water tank, septic system and various other necessities built), we have lived in a rural area all this time. So do we regret out move? I think in order to answer this we have to look at in relation to the main reasons why we moved.


Work/life balance

My husband and I both had jobs where we worked incredible hours. I was usually at work by 7:30am and often didn’t leave until after 5:30pm. I then took home a lot of work. For half the year I also worked half of Saturday. That would be ok if my salary matched my hours. Even with the extended ‘holidays’ that teachers get, most of that time disappears between professional development, planning (it’s impossible to plan programs, lessons and assessments when you are supposed to be teaching the 25 or so cherubs in front of you – so this all gets done in the holidays) as well as all the other odds and ends of teaching. I think people forget how much administration there is in teaching and that admin simply can’t be done with students in front of you. Anyhow. Long story short – we were working more hours than we intended. This became really apparent when we had our daughter. Once you factor in our ridiculous travel time to and from work (we didn’t live that far away – but you know Sydney traffic) my husband effectively never saw our daughter during the week. That wasn’t how we envisaged raising our children.

When we moved, I didn’t have to work for the first eighteen months of my son’s life. So they got a lot more of my time than they would’ve, had we stayed in Sydney… although one could argue that may not have been a good thing!! But that also came at a cost. My husband couldn’t find work anywhere near his skill level when we first moved. So for eight months he travelled back to Sydney Monday-Friday… So they might have got more of me but they lost a lot of their dad time.


Now things have settled. My husband and I have both found jobs in Canberra. My husband has taken a big pay cut to have the stability of a permanent job, rather than a contract. Me? Well moving meant that I had to take a teaching job, rather than the executive level position I held in Sydney. So I’ve taken a huge drop in pay too. Why am I no longer an executive? Well that’s a long and complex answer. But to try and simplify it – My daughter starts school next year, so I’d rather work as a teacher at the school I’d like her to attend, than as an executive in a school I wouldn’t want her to attend. So I’m working at this awesome school… even though it means a huge drop in income. That was the decision we made as a family.

But money isn’t everything. We now all go to daycare/pre-school/work within three blocks of each other. That means we take one car to and from home. Canberra seems to pride itself on being family friendly. My husband is able to drop my daughter off at pre-school. As I go to work 40minutes earlier than she starts pre-school, they hang out in a park together for some daddy/daughter time. I don’t think that would ever have been possible in Sydney. My son’s daycare is next-door to where I work. So, if I wanted to, I could choose to pick him up and have him play beside me while I finish my work. It’s difficult to put a price on this convenience. Most afternoons I manage to collect the children by 4:30pm too, which puts us all in good stead to be home by dinner time, so we can eat as family. And my weekends? My weekends are spent with my children. No Saturday sport for me unless it’s for my children. That is a huge plus.



What traffic? Occasionally we get stuck behind a cattle truck. That can be annoying but it isn’t long until we get an overtaking lane. Essentially we still take 40-50 minutes to get to work but our views out the car window are what you see in the picture below. I much prefer those views.


A simpler life

Ok. This was naive. I don’t think life is ever simple. I think we’ve just swapped one set of problems for a more preferable set of problems. However how we spend our time as a family has changed dramatically. In Sydney we spent a lot of time in the car, in traffic, trying to get where we wanted to go, or trying to find a park once we got there. Even going one suburb away to the shops was a pain. And everywhere was crowded. Now… once we get to Canberra, everywhere is only 5-15 minutes from everywhere else. We spend our weekends going to amazing art galleries, innumerable museums, fantastic festivals, so many geared to families. And the crowds? Well, there can be crowds, but they are few and far between. And when we aren’t in Canberra? We might be going to a local festival, a rodeo, or hanging out at home. Might not be everyone’s cup of tea, but we love it. Hopefully things will only get better as the children get older. We’ll add to our little farm, a vegetable garden here, a chook shed there, some blackberry and raspberry bushes… some cows and maybe some chickens. Who knows? How complex we make our little life is up to us.



A better life for our children

This one is in a state of flux at the moment. Whilst our daughter has now begun to make some great friends, our move meant we moved away, from what I would call, the best mother’s group ever. While we still catch up with them ‘virtually’ and some of them have even visited us and we try to get up to visit them… it is difficult to see their excited posts in our Facebook group from their regular catchups and organised outings to concerts, etc and know that I’ve taken her away from that brilliant, supportive group of friends.

We do love our little world we are creating from them. Last week, when we were eating lamb, our four year old daughter said, “So did the farmer kill the baby sheep, then cut it up and put it into little boxes for us to buy?” They are growing up with an awareness of where their food comes from, an appreciation of the process and a connection with the land and weather that we never had. By living in the country, but going to school in the city, they seem to be getting quite a broad view of things. We can already see some of the benefits. I’m hoping that they will love this life as much as we do. But I think this section will be difficult to answer until they’re a little older.



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Written by Nadia



Can you believe that is the view from our bed of a morning! Friends have said we’ll soon get used to it, but I don’t think we’ll ever stop appreciating it.

Leanne @ Deep Fried Fruit

Huh! You’re just around the corner from me! Well, kind of. Canberra is just around the corner isn’t it? Let me know if ever you want an in-real-life bloggy catch up! I’d love a cuppa …


We think so! But there are some really tough days too. Like everywhere and everyone.


In some ways I would love to go rural, but I’m not sure in other ways! Mostly I don’t really enjoy driving…


I don’t like driving, or at least I didn’t in the city. But every drive is such a scenic trip in the country. Just tonight we passed an echidna on the drive home. Now I don’t mind driving so much anymore!


I understand we moved from Melbourne to Ballarat when our oldest 2 were 1 and 3, now 7 years later we have another 2 more children and don’t regret the move. The lifestyle, no traffic and better family/ work life balance make it a great decision.


We looked at Ballarat! But it was too far from family. We wanted to be able to come back as a day trip. Ballarat is such a lovely place, I can understand why you moved there.

Ashlea @ Glamour Coastal Living

I really admire those families that pick their lives up and relocate. I think the pros are outweighing the odds here and the kids look so happy in their rural life. I hope you are loving it and have no regrets – life looks simple, happier and more stress free! ūüôā x


I admire this – I’m sure when your husband was still commuting back to Sydney you had lots of ‘WHY did we do this?’ moments. But you stuck with it. I’m so happy with where you’re at now!
And loved this line: “I think we‚Äôve just swapped one set of problems for a more preferable set of problems.” That’s exactly it. Every way of life has peaks and troughs, pros and cons. You have to work out which troughs and cons you can handle the best. #teamIBOT

Alix @ thebuilderette

Sounds like it’s been an interesting, and successful, move so far. We sometimes think about moving out of Sydney – the traffic is a nightmare – but not sure we’re quite ready just yet. There’s so much that appeals about life out of the big city, that’s for sure.


So true Alix. We miss a lot about the city. It took us a while to make the decision to leave and for about a year after moving I was longing to go back. But the longer we are away, the less we miss it. We prefer the city much more now as a place to ‘visit’ and then can leave the madness and escape back to our quiet home!


As I was reading your first sentence re: hours, I wondered if you had been a teacher! It’s one of the most difficult jobs and there really isn’t an easy way to balance all that work and a family too.

I love reading your blog. You make me think about moving to the country and raising our girls there.

Thanks for keeping me inspired ūüôā


That is such a sweet comment. Thank you. We blame the tv show The Gourmet Farmer for our move!


Wow that is a huge move! I often dream about moving but I just don’t cope with change at all! If we moved it would be so we could be closer to my parents which is still on the coast. I think you are amazing to do it. Your daughter will make some amazing friends as she grows up. I love that you have the courage to make the change!

Bec Senyard

Any type of sea change or country life change requires adjustment and sometime sacrifice. It takes time to settle and find your roots and make decisions for the sake of the family. I loved reading this post. So honest, yet I feel you have made the right move and don’t underestimate the memories you are creating together as a family and for your children. xx

Sammie @ The Annoyed Thyroid

Sounds like a move in the right direction! I love Canberra and if we could get jobs and/or I could drive I’d be happy to live there! I hear you on the pay cuts and financial things, but by the sounds of thing your quality of life and quality time that you spend together is amazing and you can’t put a price on that because it’s priceless!


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